Be strong enough to stand alone, smart enough to know when you need help, and brave enough to ask for it

This is a very meaningful phrase! Too often, many of us are too afraid or shy or shameful or egoistic in asking for help, but when we really do, it’s already too late. One must realize the key concerns are: the reason in asking for help; the timing when we actually ask for help; who we ask the help from; and how we ask them. Finally, always remember: don’t take those who help us for granted, always appreciate them, be thankful to them and return the favour whenever we have the opportunity.

“坚强的独立面对人生；理智的了解几时需要辅助；适当的时候该勇敢的要求别人辅助“

这又是一个十分有意义的一句话。我们都经常太不好意思，或不敢，或感觉很羞耻，或自尊心太强而没办法求助。而很多时候当我们真的提出来的时候，事情已经太晚了。我们必须清楚明白求助的四大关键因数，需要拿捏得很好：我们求助的原因；求助的时刻；求助的对象；和求助的方式。最后，请紧紧记住：别人帮我们不是理所当然的事，所以要珍惜，感恩，并且饮水思源。

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